Why do men pay for sex?

Sex is a basic human need, just like food, love and shelter. Though most men and women need sex to climb up Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs, it’s very much apparent that more guys pay for sex than females. There are many contributing factors to why this is, expectations from porn, less social pressures for monogamous relationships and boredom are just a few to name. Within this blogpost we are going to delve in (balls) deep and find out why men pay for sex..

It might often seem like a taboo subject, but the world is saturated with places where men can pay for sex.  A study by Fondation Cells estimated there are 40 million prostitutes globally, with a staggering 80 per cent of them being female. Many of these are high-class escorts, erotic masseuses, brothel workers and street walkers. So why are men paying for such services?

Expectations from porn

In the less decade, porn has become accessible to all. One tap into Google and you’ll be spoilt for choice with millions of X rated videos on various porn sites. Though we all love to watch porn, many phycologists believe it’s giving us unrealistic expectations of women and intimacy which sways many guys to pay for sex. Let’s look at female porn stars. Perky breasts, tiny waists and a big juicy bum seems to be the requirement to be successful in the industry. Not only are these women deemed aesthetically perfect within society, but they’re also super adventurous in the bedroom – which appeals to many guys. Deep throating, anal and the most daring sex positions are common within porn, which leaves many men fantasising without realising the realities. Many sex-workers cater to men who love porn, by often offering services such as ‘porn star experience’, ‘role-play’ and ‘water-sports’ within their description. These workers usually have a photo gallery, which showcases their flawless body in racy underwear or bikini. This leads the ordinary gentlemen to feel as though the only way they can maximise their sexual pleasures is to pay for it. Because after all, where are they going to find an ordinary woman who ticks all the boxes of a porn star.

Less relationship pressures

Just over 50 years ago it was expected that as a guy you would go to school, find a job, get married, move into a marital home and settle down to have kids. Nowadays, society is changing with men feeling as though they have more freedom to do as they please. Though finding a Mrs might not be as urgent, the need for sex is still there, which leads many men paying for sexual services. We’re not denying that many single guys regularly ‘pull’ on nights out, as well as using dating sites such as Tinder and Bumble for booty calls. However, some men don’t have the confidence to put themselves out there to hook up for casual sex. In recent years, TV shows such as Love Island have conveyed the ideologies than men need to be strong and have a six-pack to pull a stereotypical beautiful girl. This has left many guys feeling self-conscious and not good enough to initiate casual encounters with the opposite sex. To save embarrassment and to fulfil their needs, many men opt to pay for sex.

Boredom within the bedroom

We’re not going to beat around the bush here – it’s not just singleton men who pay for sex, copious married guys often seek sexual services too. We’re not here to condemn cheating, but we will suggest some reasons why husbands pay for sex with another women. After years of marriage, some men start to get bored in the bedroom. Many suggest they get tiresome of the same vanilla routine and crave excitement.  It’s also common for many married women to lose their libido as they get older, which leaves many husbands having no choice but to seek sex from elsewhere. So you’re probably wondering why these men don’t part ways with their wives and find a new lady in their life to reinstate the exhilaration which comes with a relationship. However, despite not having their sexual needs fulfilled, many of these are happily married and couldn’t imagine their life without their partner. Staying with their wife and paying for sexual services means they have the best of both worlds and maintains a healthy and happy life.

Work commitments

Society might be changing, with men and women coming more and more equal every day. However, it’s still apparent that males are higher up in the workplace (a whopping 78 per cent of CEOs are men) With high positions, come responsibility, which ultimately consumes a lot of time and cause a lot of stress. Many men with high-up jobs simply do not have enough time to sustain a relationship, nor do they have the hours in a day to arrange a casual encounter. Instead, they opt to pay a worker to fulfil their sexual needs. They find this a much easier way to seek sex. Time is precious in a high up job, so booking a professional service would mean they’re getting good sex, rather than arranging a casual hook-up with a female they might not be compatible with. It also means they aren’t pressured to seeing a certain someone again, as they are able to access sex spontaneously when they opt to pay for it. 

The sex industry has been around for centuries and is constantly evolving, men will still be paying for sex in years to come. However, as a patriarchal society continues to die out will we see a shift in more women seeking sexual services? We suppose only time will tell, but we are very interested in finding out..

Meanwhile try our tantric massage available in London

How to find a Tantric massage?

If you’re looking for a Tantric massage, London is certainly the place to be. The capital is saturated with massage parlours, walk-ins and agencies supplying the tantalising bodywork. While there might be lots of places to have a Tantric massage, it’s important to do your research beforehand to find one which is 100 per cent suited to you. Here are the factors we believe you should follow when finding a Tantric massage:

Make sure it’s a licenced massage parlour

One tap into Google and you’ll find many establishments in London who claim to offer a professional Tantric massage, but this is often a pack of lies. To minimise the risk of being scammed to zero, do avoid private escort services and dingy walk ins and instead find a reputable massage parlour. In England, only massage parlours are licenced to provide legal Tantric massages. To work in a massage parlour, the therapists have to obtain a licence, which certifies them as healthy, both mentally and physically. Licenced therapists have strict UK laws implemented on them, with one being they have to wear protection at all times and as a double precaution, undergo STI screening on a fortnightly basis. The licence also shows they have fully trained in all aspects of erotic massage, including Tantra, in a legitimate massaging school. Undertaking a Tantric massage from an unlicensed ‘masseuse’ can be dangerous. They often aren’t trained in massage strokes, which run the risk of harming your muscles. It also makes the chances of contracting an STD much higher as they often choose not to wear protection and avoid sexual health screening. While it might be tempting to get Tantric massage from the run-of-the-mill sex worker due to a cheaper price, do avoid – the risk factors make it so not worth it. If you’ve found a great parlour online and want to ensure it’s licenced, then do feel free to contact them to ask about their certificates. If the parlour is professional, the call centre team will be more than happy to disclose this information with you.

Make sure they’re your type of ladies

Let’s be honest, a big factor of enjoying your Tantric massage is fancying your masseuse. Therefore, be sure to find a parlour which hosts a range of girls who are just your type. While therapists from all over the world offering Tantric massage here in London, we believe that it is the oriental ladies who serve the best form of the bodywork. This is because Tantric massage originates in China, which means these girls demonstrate a passion for Tantra from a young age. They offer Tantric massage because they have an undeniable love for it, rather than trying to make a quick buck. To ensure our licenced parlour is a cut above the rest and maintains authentic to the origins of Tantra, we only host masseuses from China, Japan and Korea. Whether your type is a curvy goddess, a slender model or a petite babe then we have it covered – with most girls ranging from the youthful age of 20 and 30. We also have mature ladies available upon request, with our oldest licenced therapist being 45. We understand that fancying your therapist is a big part of your Tantric massage, therefore we go above and beyond to ensure we have a masseuse who is sure to be the girl of your dreams.

Ensure they offer the services and extras you desire

The spectrum of Tantric massage is super abroad, with services ranging from sweet vanilla, to overwhelming hot spice. It’s important to never presume a massage parlour will offer the type of Tantric massage you are seeking and do make sure to do your research beforehand. The majority of reputable massage parlours (including ourselves) will have a service page for every massage they offer, including Tantric massage. The page will go into detail about the massage and will provide information about how far the pleasure will go as part of their service. If this information isn’t available online, then do feel free to contact their call centre team who will be more than happy to inform you with what their massage entails. Here at Happy Massage we believe our Tantric massages should be tailored to suit your wildest of fantasies, which is why we offer both happy ending and full service Tantra packages. And that’s not all, our gorgeous girls are also open to extras which include French kissing, assisted shower and more. We really do love to spoil you and provide you with a service which suits your preferences down to the ground. We believe communication is key to get exactly what you want from a Tantric massage. This is why we dedicate a small amount of time at the beginning of your session to chat to your masseuse about your desires – they’ll then be able to mould the massage to make it personal to you.

Do make sure it’s in your price range

Here in London, you’re guaranteed to find a Tantric massage which suits your budget. While it might be tempting to opt for an ultra-cheap Tantric massage, please don’t. This often results in being massaged by an unlicensed sex worker in a dingy location. Not only will the massage not be enjoyable, but the aftermath risk factors make it not worth it in the slightest. Here at Happy Massage we are delighted to offer clients a luxurious, professional and licenced Tantric service which doesn’t break the bank. Our certified therapists are available for Tantric massage with happy ending from just £120 per hour. If you’re seeking higher levels of thrill then the full service can be added on from just £40 extra. It’s important to ensure you know the price of your Tantric massage before arriving at the parlour. Most reputable massage parlours only accept cash payment only. Not turning up with the correct amount of money will likely be a little embarrassing, not what you need when in the company of a gorgeous masseuse.

You’ve found your perfect Tantric massage

Here at Happy Massage our Tantric services are a cut above the rest and are suitable for clients who want next level thrills and those who prefer a tamer service. We offer incall and outcall Tantric massage all over Central and Greater London areas between 10am to 3am, seven days a week. If you’re ready to kick-start your teasing and tantalising Tantric journey then call us to arrange your appointment today

Losing my virginity to tantric masseuse

Losing your virginity is something that almost every single one of us experience during our life time, no matter what age, gender, race or religion we are. The term “virginity” means something different to each of us, and the importance of it depends completely on the individual and their views towards having sex for the first time. 

One of our most popular FAQ’s we get emailed is questions regarding losing your virginity to a masseuse and having an erotic tantric massage as a first time sexual experience. Entering the world of sex can certainly be a confusing experience, therefore we understand that combining this with a curiosity towards tantric massage therapy can be very daunting. Therefore, if you are considering losing your virginity to a masseuse but aren’t sure of the rules and terms surrounding it, we have answered some of the most popular questions asked by our customers.

Is it legal?

Yes, having an erotic tantric massage is completely legal in the U.K. You are paying for the massage service and any other “extras” that you may have are confidential between you and the masseuse. You must be over 18 years old and have a valid ID with you.

Will the masseuse judge me for being a virgin?

Absolutely not. We only hire masseuses who are kind and caring as we want our customers to feel at ease during their massage experience, especially if you are a first timer. Our girls will take you on a journey of self-discovery while pleasuring and pleasing you, with no judgement being passed, just a mutual respect for one another.

Do I have to have any experience before? 

We do not ask or care about your sexual history, unless this is something you want to discuss with us. We do not have any requirements when it comes to experience, however we only provide services to men over the age of 18 who have valid ID. 

Am I allowed to kiss the masseuse?

We understand that although it may be your first time getting intimate, this might mean that it is also your first time to kiss a female too. We want the experience to be a natural one for you, which is why we offer a French kissing package for £20 extra. Before your session begins you should indicate exactly what services you want so you can have the experience you want.

Do I have a choice of masseuse?

This is a question we get asked quite a lot and the answer is yes, we always give our customers a choice of masseuse, whether it is their first time or not. We want to make your session as individual and unique as possible to cater to your personal needs and desires, therefore we believe that it is important you have a masseuse that you have hand-picked yourself. We have a website gallery with images and descriptions of each of our tantric masseuses which enables you to have a look at our girls before you come to the massage parlour. 

Do I get to choose what service I have?

Our sessions are tailored especially to meet all of your needs and desires, therefore the only one that chooses what service you have. When going through the booking process, you can have any questions or queries regarding our services answered by our receptionist. However, the masseuse will also be available for you to discuss what services you want too. 

Do I have to wear a condom?

We care about the health and safety of both our customers and our masseuses which is why we require you to wear a condom throughout our services, with no exceptions to be made under any circumstances. We also provide the condoms!

How many times am I allowed to orgasm?

We fully understand that due to it being your first experience that you may ejaculate within the first few minutes, which is why we allow you to orgasm twice within one session.

If you would like to book a tantric massage appointment in London with one of our masseuses then please contact us via SMS, mail or by phone call. We are open daily from 10am until 3am, and we provide both incall and outcall services. Our masseuses have all been highly trained to the highest of levels at some of the most elite massage therapy schools across Asia and have been carefully hand selected due to their hard work, dedication and professionalism as an erotic masseuse. Call today to book! 

Be naughty this Easter… get a Tantric massage

Fed up of piling on the pounds from over-indulging on chocolate during the Easter period? Well, here at Happy Massage we have found a way you can be naughty, without adding to your waist line. Gentlemen, why not try a teasing and tantalising Tantric massage in London this Easter Sunday? You certainly will enter a seventh heaven with this devilish treatment.

Why should I get a Tantric massage?

Of course, Tantric massage is welcomed at all times of year – but there are certain reasons why opting for Tantric over the Easter holidays makes it extra special, some of these are:

Takes away all of your stresses

Just before Easter, the working year comes to an end – which can often bring on one thing, stress. However, you can immerse your mind away from deadlines and the dreaded to-do list with the help of Tantric massage. Tantra therapists believe that when we are stressed, Chi builds in every area of the body, including the erogenous zones. Chi leaves every area enduring unwanted tension, aches and niggles. To combat this, masseuses use long and unwinding strokes wish flush out the chi and replenish the muscles with fresh oxygen and blood. This leaves your whole body and mind feeling refreshed and rejuvenated, a long way away from your stresses.

Indulges into your naughtiest of cravings

Forget chocolate eggs (they are SO last year) we are onto naughtier things here and this comes in the form of your sexiest of cravings. Did you know Tantric massage is the full package for fulfilling all of your sensual needs? The beauty of a Tantra treatment is that it can be tailored to just how you like it. Whether you are an individual who craves a tame vanilla experience or someone who prefers it more rough and ready, then the therapists have it covered. And the fun doesn’t stop there, most Tantric massages come with the opportunity to enjoy various extras. Whether that being French kissing, dress-up or OWO, so if you’ve always strived to try something a little more daring then do feel free to put in a request at the beginning of your appointment. A Tantric massage promises to take you on a tantalising journey to a sweet serenity.

It’s good for you

So it maybe just a little bit naughty, but Tantric massage is in fact, SO good for you. The aim of Tantra is to harmonise the whole body, mind and soul which gives you the most amazing satisfaction and pleasure. Tantric massage has also proven to boost the immune system, tackle aches and pains and relieves sleep problems including fatigue and insomnia. Many men who opt for the treatment on a regular basis feel refreshed and rejuvenated and often 10 years younger.

It makes you better in bed

Let’s be honest, who doesn’t want to have the stamina of a porn-star? Therefore, if you’re looking to boost your stamina then Tantric massage can certainly help you out. Tantra therapists boast the highest expertise in a specialist technique informally known as edging. Edging means that when you are reaching a point of climax, the masseuse will menouvre her sensual finger tips to a less sensitive area of the body before repeating the process again and again. Not only does this intensify the orgasm which is to come, but also majorly enhances how long you will last. Tantric massage can also relieve unwanted symptoms of premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction. You’re guaranteed to leave the parlour as a new man.

Your secret is safe with us

Tempted to book a Tantric massage but are worried about being caught out? Then don’t worry, your secret is safe with us. Our Tantra palaces are super discreet and are disguised as lavish penthouse suites in some of the capital’s finest postcodes. Our booking team also take client confidentiality very seriously, erasing evidence of any appointment information every 24 hours. Want to book a Tantric massage this Easter? Then you definitely need to read on…

How to book

To a book a five-star Tantra treatment this Easter then please dial our 24 hour hotline number on 07818115239 we host a variety of smoking-hot therapists from China, Japan and Korea who have trained in the art of Tantra and seduction in their home countries. Now they find themselves in the bright lights of London to showcase their finest talents on the gentlemen of the city. Our massages maybe super luxurious, but our prices certainly don’t break the bank. Our Tantra therapies are available from just £120. So what are you waiting for sexy boy? Book your massage in today!

New Year, New us – we are expanding our erotic massage list!

As 2018 comes to a close, everyone here at happy-massage has reflected over how much the business has expanded and excelled throughout the year, and we could not have done this without you, our amazing customers.

We are looking forward to a bright New Year and we are pleased to announce that we will be expanding our services even further in 2019. That means more services, more choice of girls, more locations and a lot more happy endings and authentic tantric fun!

However, we decided to ask some of our customers to leave a review on what their favourite service has been throughout 2018 so that we can make our services even better for you throughout the New Year.

Paul, 32

“My favourite service this year has to be the full body to body massage I received. Although I had experienced this service with a different company, I definitely cam to love it when I tried it with happy-massage. The full body to body massage consisted of both myself and the beautiful Korean masseuse I selected being fully naked. She uses special gels and oils which reduced friction and we were able to rub against one another’s bodies very easily. The tantric masseuse was very slim and petite, and I am quite a large man, so it felt like she could rub herself against me very easily which was highly pleasurable. The full body to body massage is an experience like no other, sensual yet pleasing, relaxing yet exhilarating.”

Randal, 47

“I have been a regular client at happy-massage for many years now, and I have to say, each year the masseuses keep getting better and better. I have no doubt that 2019 will trump 2018 and the girls will outshine themselves once again. I can’t choose a service that I enjoyed the most because they were all amazing, but what I will comment on is how professional and hard working all of the masseuses are. They put in a special effort to ensure that each client receives a unique experience that caters to their individual needs and desires. I am always very happy when I leave the happy-massage parlour and I look forward to their erotic tantic massage services throughout 2019.”

Tobi, 25

“When I was on my year abroad at university, I spent a year in Tokyo as a foreign exchange student. I made some local friends who introduced me to Nuru massage and I couldn’t get enough of it. When I arrived back to London afterwards, I spent a lot of time and money trying to find an tantric massage parlour that could meet the standards of the one I received in Japan, however it was proving difficult. One of my friends suggested that I visited happy-massage as they had real Japanese girl, offering authentic Asian massages and boy, was I pleased that I did. When I arrived at the clean and fresh erotic tantric massage parlour I was given the choice of masseuse and I had the most beautiful Japanese massage therapists to choose from. They provided a clean air mattress and used real Nuru gel that they had imported especially from Tokyo. The masseuse used her naked body to slip and slide all over me until I was aroused, the full body to body motion brought me intense levels of pleasure, and she finished it off by provide a full service massage. It turned out to be even beer than the Nuru massage service I received in japan. I could tell the masseuse had been trained to the highest standard and specialised in Nuru massage. The tantric massage parlour is ready to install new air mattresses in 2019, so I very excited to continue to use their services in the New Year.”

Royce, 29

“As I travel a lot, I do not get to see my partner that much which can be very frustrating. Due to the intensity of the job, I do need to release my tension somehow, and I find that receiving a happy ending massage is the ideal way. I do not receive full service as I want to stay loyal to my partner, but we have talked about how we are both comfortable for me to receive a happy ending massage. The masseuse always starts off by massage my whole body, caressing my skin and reducing any muscle pain or tension. This helps me to relax and chill out before she gives the tantric massage an exotic twist. I always orgasm a few times throughout the session which is amazing because not many tantric massage parlours allow you to do this.

So, if you would like to use our service to start of your new year with an orgasmic BANG then please contact us via call, SMS or email and we will provide you with an extensive list of services which we provide.

Happy New Year from all the girls at happy-massage!

If you are interested in receiving an tantric massage in London, click here.

Tantric Massage Paddington

If you are seeking a tantric massage that will help you feel relaxed and revitalised all while being aroused and pleasured sexually, then our tantric massage Paddington parlour. Our services are performed by beautiful, oriental masseuses who have been professionally trained at some of the top massage therapy schools across Asia. Massage therapy has been a part of Eastern culture for centuries, with tantric massage on the rise and interest for it becoming increasingly popular in the U.K and USA. So not only is it something that is engrained into these girls naturally through their culture, they have also worked incredibly hard to gain the skill and technique that they have. All of our masseuses – therapists are equally as stunning, although you can choose your desired one by viewing them on our gallery which you can find on our website.

We are based in a very convenient location, just a few minutes away from both Paddington tube station and Paddington train station. Therefore, we are very accessible to reach from many different areas across the city. We also offer outcall services in Paddington and the surround neighbourhoods, so if you prefer for us to visit you in the comfort of your own home or hotel room then we have this option for you. All of our services are extremely private and confidential for all of our clients, meaning you can be at ease and relax knowing that your session with us will always be 100% discreet. We care about our customers, so if you have any questions or queries regarding our services or types of massages/prices then we are more than happy to speak with you. We always want to ensure that our tantric massage parlour in Paddington is a warm and welcoming place where you feel comfortable, so we will try our best to create a friendly and positive atmosphere, setting the tone for your relaxing massage.

We have some of the best massage service prices across London, while still upholding our extremely high standards and reputation that keeps our customers very happy. Our most popular services are our happy ending massage (massage with hand job £120) and our full service massage (massage with blow job and sex £160). We also offer many other extras for only £20 for you to enjoy!

Call us today to book an appointment, we look forward to seeing you.

View our tantric massage Paddington service page

Seduced at the bar

I was working away on business to London, representing my company and dealing with new clients that my boss really wanted to work with on a new business development project. It was long hours, a lot of travelling, and it was also rather lonely. After a long day in the office, I decided that I would treat myself to a few drinks at the hotel bar before I headed back to Manchester the next day. I ordered myself a gin and tonic and sat on stool at the side of the bar, perfect viewing of the football game on the television.

I was getting quite wrapped up in the game, and the gin was going down well, when I heard an angelic voice ask for a glass of red wine. I took a glance to my right and a beautiful oriental woman in a long, sleek black dressed leaned against the bar. She turned her head, and her red painted lips gave me a cheeky smirk, and I nervously smiled back. Her hair looked as silky and sleek as her dress, and I could see every curve of her toned body. This woman was an Asian Goddess, truly stunning in every way, and I had to talk to her. “Hey, I’m Jim”, I said as I held out of shaking hand. “Judy”, she replied with that same cheeky smile and sexy voice that I had heard before. Her small, well-kept hands felt so soft, and touching her sent a rush of butterflies through my stomach.

After about an hour of chatting with this absolute stunner, and 5 or 6 gins in, she started to move closer to me. Her delicate hand brushed off my leg, and I could smell her sweet scent. I broke out in a nervous sweat as she leaned in closer to me and I could feel her honey breath on my neck. Her soft whisper in my ear demanding that I take her to my hotel room. I opened the door and she told me to lie on the bed, while she went to the bathroom to freshen up. Taking off my suit jacket and loosening my tie, my heart started racing and I didn’t know how I should sit on the bed. Just then, the bathroom door opened, and I couldn’t believe what stood before me. Her silky, black dress hit the floor revealing her laced red bra and matching panties. She walked seductively towards me, every step she got closer my heart beat increased rapidly. Crawling on to the bed and then slowly making her way over my body, I started to get hard as a rock. Unbuttoning my shirt and undoing my belt, I was naked before I knew it. We began to kiss, her red lipstick somehow staying untouched.

After a few moments she got fully undressed and began rubbing her body all over mine, and using her hands to caress my balls and penis. It was so sensual, and I was so aroused. It felt amazing not just physically, but mentally. All my stress and tension from the business trip suddenly faded away and I felt as if I was in heaven, with this Asian angel. I had never had such a tantric massage sex experience before, she was such a lioness and knew exactly how and where to touch me to drive me crazy. After numerous hours of the most amazing sex of my life, we fell asleep into a deep slumber.

When I awoke in the morning, my Asian delight was nowhere to be seen. On the side of my bed was a little white note, so I read it. She left an address for me, a location in London. What was I to do? I was meant to leave for Manchester in just an hour, and had a huge meeting. I couldn’t get her out of my mind, and I knew that I may regret it if I never see her again. I packed up my stuff and left for the train station, I couldn’t throw away work commitments for a woman, but she wasn’t just any woman.

As my train pulled up to the platform and the doors opened, my body became stiff and I couldn’t force myself on to the train. I knew deep down that I needed to see Judy again, so I took her note out of my pocket and went to find her.

 

The mysterious address Asian girl Judy left on the paper was our tantric massage parlour in London. Judy is actually one of our masseuses who agreed to share this story with you. The man from this story is Judy’s regular customer since the time they met at the bar. Book a tantric massage with Judy or simply visit us. We are sure our girls will make you want to become our next regular customer. More information about tantric massage London here

Seven secrets massage therapists know about you

Massage therapists, the superheroes when it comes to working wonders on our often neglected body. Despite how much we value massage how therapists can ooze our body and minds to a euphoric state of serenity, we don’t often give them credit for how much they understand us physically. So here are seven secrets massage therapists know about YOU!

1.If you’re feeling stressed

Massage therapists can tell straight away if you’re feeling stressed as soon as you enter the room. Being too chatty, feeling sweaty or on edge are giveaway signs you are finding it difficult to relax. Also, massage therapists can detect stressed out bodies as soon as the massage begins. Stressed out problematic areas such as the neck, back and shoulders often are troublesome to muscle knots which are built up from the stress hormone, cortisol. When this happens the therapist pays particular attention to massaging out the stress and realigning the tissue for rewarding relief.

2.What type of work you do

Massage therapists can immediately detect what field of work you’re in just by feeling your body. Office workers often have hunched shoulders and bad posture from sitting down at a desk all day, while dentists often endure tension along the side they usually work on. A manual worker can also be easily spotted as they often suffer from flexibility and postural problems from bending down and lifting heavy materials for eight hours a day.

3.If you have cancer

On a more serious note, massage therapists can dictate early signs of skin cancer. Skin cancer can commonly develop on your ‘blind spots’ including your back and behind the top of the tops of your upper legs. If you have regular massage sessions your therapist will be able to notice changes to your skin and recommend if certain moles, spots or skin lesions should be checked out by a doctor.

4.If you suffer from sleeping problems

Massage therapists can tell if you’re not a great sleeper by the type of tension built in your shoulders and neck. But luckily, soothing styles including the Swedish massage are super therapeutic. The Swedish style releases the ‘feel good hormone’ serotonin which is essential for relieving sleeping problems, including insomnia.

5.If you have any old injuries

No matter how long ago it may have been, massage therapists are likely to be able to tell if you had broken a bone or suffered a serious injury when you were younger. Massage therapists are experts at understanding the structure of the bones and can immediately detect if your muscle and joints are different and have undergone a healing process.

6.If your bag is too heavy

We’re all guilty of carrying bags which are too heavy which cause stress on our shoulder blades! Massage therapists are immediately able to recognise this as too much weight results in muscle tightness and adhesions. To combat this, therapists suggests carrying separate bags or transitioning your bag from shoulder to shoulder every so often. (Of course, a massage can also help!)

7.If you’re a smoker

Massage therapists can tell if you’re a heavy smoker by the nature of your breathing. If you often struggle to catch your breath or fall asleep and gasp throughout the massage are giveaway signs you are partial to a few cigarettes! But if you want to quit smoking you’ve come to the right place, massage therapy has been proven to help recover from addiction. Win, win!

So there you have it, seven secrets massage therapists know about your body! So before you go to inform the therapist of all your problems they might have already worked them out for themselves. Clever, eh? Well we did tell you they have super powers!

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How to make the most out of your tantric massage in Park Lane

Have you ever heard of tantric massage? Made somewhat famous by Sting who once admitted to Q Magazine he practised seven hour tantric sex sessions, tantric massage is an ancient Indian therapy. Dating as far back as 5AD, tantra was practised by monks to keep a clear mind and body free from negative energies, which may trigger illness. Tantric massage evolved as the physical branch of tantra meant to actively stimulate the body and its energies as opposed to emotionally coaxing them.

Many people leave tantric massage sessions feeling rejuvenated and invigorated right down to their soul. A tantric massage has the ability to reach into a person’s soul, right down to the deepest, darkest depths, and help them release any pent-up tensions that they may not have even known they had.

For people who struggle with intimacy, a tantric massage session might help them become more open to receiving affection. A tantric massage usually starts with meditation and focusing on just the body and how it’s working. The masseuse will sit with you, eyes closed and taking deep breaths. Once you’re relaxed, physically and mentally, the masseuse will ask you to take your clothes off and lie back. A tantric massage is best experienced naked. If you want to be more modest or you’re self-conscious, you can keep your underwear on. But it’s important to realise that tantra and its mystical benefits cannot be properly benefitted from with clothes on.

Why do you have to be naked during a tantric massage?

Tantra is about embracing your inner emotions and beliefs in order to realise new potentials and uncover hidden sensations. A tantric massage is often described as a spiritual experience. According to practitioners, it’s very difficult to truly release emotions and go on a spiritual cleanse if you’re weighed down with clothes.

Whether you choose to believe this or not, tantric massage also focuses on promoting skin on skin contact. You can’t deny that touch is very comforting, regardless of how touch-phobic you might be. This is how the massage can help people who battle with intimacy issues – the masseuse will slowly build up the level of contact until you’re totally comfortable and able to fully enjoy the pleasures of touch.

Tantric massage can also be useful for people suffering from sexual problems such as erectile dysfunction, performance anxiety, orgasmic issues and struggling to become aroused. Tantra and its intimate touch are very pleasurable, especially when it’s built up notch by notch. A tantric masseuse can slowly tease you, bringing you back and forth from the edge of an orgasm multiple times. This is particularly helpful for people who are suffering from premature ejaculation and performance anxiety.

How to reap the benefits of tantric massage

If you want to truly experience the full spectrum of benefits, keep these tips in mind:

  • Have a shower or bath before and after the massage, preferably shared with the masseuse. Why? Hot water helps to relax you and prepares your tight muscles for the massage. Sharing it with the masseuse builds your emotional connection before the session has begun, meaning that you will be more receptive to her touch.
  • Pair it with a soapy massage. The soapy massage is an exotic Japanese style that involves the masseuse covering your naked body in soap, rubbing it so it forms a lather and smoothing it all over your nooks and crannies. It’s particularly incredible for forming the sexual chemistry that will help later on in the tantric session.
  • Stay hydrated after the massage. Massage stimulates your body’s functions so you produce more waste products than normal. Drink plenty of water after the session so the fluids can flush the excess metabolic waste and toxins from your body.
  • Stay rested. Don’t do anything that might be considered stressful. Stay mindful and do relaxing activities so you don’t reverse the tranquil benefits of the massage.

The best hotels to stay in Park Lane

Pair your tantric massage with a luxury hotel. Here are three of our client favourites:

45 Park Lane – Dorchester Collection
Rooms from £621 a night
Average customer rating on Booking.com: 9.3/10

The Beaumont
Rooms from £421 a night
Average customer rating on Booking.com: 9.5/10

The Connaught
Rooms from £420 a night
Average customer rating on Booking.com: 9.3/10

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Tantric massage benefits: 9 reasons to make an appointment today

Five years ago, a crucial study found that massage actually does work in relieving muscle pain, which is particularly useful after a gruelling gym session that leaves you feeling drained and overworked. The study found that a mere 10 minutes was enough to reduce inflammation and help your body get on its way to Recovery Ville.

However, the benefits of a massage go far beyond easing aches, pains and strains. Aside from muscular ache, stress relief is one of the primary reasons people choose to get a massage. For decades, massage has been one of the leading therapies for busting stress. There is a growing body of research that suggests a hands-on rubdown is better than you might initially think.

1. Control anxiety and manage symptoms of depression

Massage is widely known to soothe anxiety and depression. There’s something so soothing and comforting about feeling someone else’s touch, whether it’s a simple pat on the shoulder, a bear hug or a massage. Massage, in particular, has been proven to lower levels of the hormone responsible for stress (cortisol), which results in a lifted mood and lowered blood pressure. Now, a tantric massage involves some sexual stimulation so this hormone is lowered even more. The pleasure neurotransmitter, dopamine, will be activated and serotonin will be released. Both of these work to boost and stabilise mood.

2. Soothes muscular and structural pain

According to Time.com, eight out of 10 Americans experience back pain that leaves them debilitated. A 2011 study found that a massage can help reduce pain and helps those who were suffering from it feel and function far better than those who didn’t have a massage. Massage has also been said to boost joint flexibility, ease stiffness and overall, promote a better range of motion.

3. Improve sleep quality

A massage is so relaxing that many people actually drift off while receiving one. Studies have investigated this, and found that it’s due to massage’s effect on delta waves, which are brain waves that are linked to deep sleep. A tantric massage is even better for that because people can experience sexual arousal and orgasms – the latter of which is said to boost sleep quality. This is due to the hormones released during orgasm which leave the person feeling so relaxed that they feel sleepy.

4. Boost your immune system

Multiple studies have found that massage therapy can actually help to boost the immune system’s functioning. One 2010 study discovered that massage seemed to increase the white blood cell count in the body. Scientists have theorised that it’s due to massage reducing the level of cortisol. Cortisol, which is the stress hormone, lowers the level of white blood cells, so by inhibiting cortisol production by keeping the person’s mood lifted, white blood cell production can run freely again. That’s why when you’re stressed, you are more susceptible to illness. The stress-relieving powers of a massage can help to boost your immune system and keep you healthy.

5. Beat mood swings

If you find yourself swinging from one mood to the next, a massage might help. Scores of studies have found that the mood-enhancing benefits of a massage can help to kick mood swings to the curb.

6. Boost alertness

A 1996 study conducted by the Touch Research Institute found that people who received a 15 minute chair massage were more alert and managed to complete a series of maths questions more quickly and accurately than those who didn’t. A tantric massage can be even better because studies have found that orgasms actually improve your concentration. Because you’re focused on achieving that orgasm, your brain works to concentrate on that goal and only that goal. The result? A more focused, alert mind.

7. Reduce headaches and migraines

Not only can massage ease muscle pain, but it can also reduce the intensity or completely ease headaches and migraines. According to WebMD and astudy conducted by TRI, a regular massage can actually reduce the frequency of migraines and the intensity of the pain. Another 2009 study discovered that a mere 30 minute massage can reduce the pain experienced by tension headaches and reducing the stress and anger caused by that pounding head. A tantric massage can take it further because orgasms and pleasure are natural cures for stress and headaches. Haven’t you ever tried to cure a migraine with sex?

8. Improve complexion

Tantric massage can have some beauty benefits too. The techniques boost blood flow, which encourages lymphatic drainage from the cells (moving toxins out of the body and nutrients in), plumps up loose, slack skin and adds vitality to a dull complexion. As for orgasms, that rush you feel is a rush of blood all through your body. Imagine the skin-related benefits you could experience with that!

9. Help with cancer treatments

Although it’s not the first therapy that might spring to mind when you think of cancer, the pleasurable benefits of a tantric massage can help to lift the moods of patients. This can relieve some of the psychological problems, such as anxiety and depression.

Where can I try a tantric massage?

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